The following are my top picks for BDSM dating sites. I wanted to give options for a variety of kinks, so in addition to BDSM you’ll also find hookup sites specifically for femdom dating, spanking dating, pegging, and foot fetish. All these sites are open to all genders and orientations, and provide engaging sex-positive communities of people who actually want to hook up and connect in person. Enjoy!
The mother of all BDSM dating sites, BDSMdate.com is my favorite site for meeting dommes, subs, and everything in between. They simply have more members than the rest which makes finding local bdsm hookups and kinky partners easier. Check it out and you’ll find BDSM chat rooms, and live member videos in addition to all those profiles. Nudity abounds and it’s a great open-minded place to have some fun regardless of orientation or fetish.
Do you like your women dominant? Not always easy to tell in person but with sites like FindaFemdom.com you’ll have no trouble identifying women who want you on your knees! This site is fairly basic but has a good following and is growing steadily. Note that there are also plenty of submissives inside so this site works for all types of BDSM hookups.
FindSpankingPartners.com is an excellent site for meeting women and men who are really into spanking. From light spanking to caning and domination, you’ll find local spanking enthusiasts ready to meet up. Enjoy chat rooms and instant messaging as you get to know other who share your spanking fetish.
Strapon sex and pegging are becoming more and more popular. Men and women are curious about the role-reversal of pegging and a lot of submissive guys are eager to bend over for a dominant woman. If this sounds like you, give StraponDating.com a try. It’s one of the few legitimate dating sites for strapon lovers, and what it lacks in features it makes up with it’s active community of pegging partners looking to meet up.
Forget having to reluctantly tell your dates about your foot fetish while getting to know them. Go straight to the source with FootFetishPartners.net and meet women who LOVE foot play, feet worship, toe-sucking, and all that other good stuff. And at Foot Fetish Partners, you’ll actually find profile pictures featuring member’s lovely feet. It doesn’t get much better than this for true feet connoisseurs!
Don’t see a dating site above that matches your fetish? You may have luck at a larger fetish dating site that encompasses many different kinks. Cuckold players, bondage enthusiasts, pantyhose lovers, crossdressers and more, all congregate at FetishHookups.com. Built on the same network as BDSMDate.com above, this site is massive with millions of kinky people looking for local partners.
If you’re looking for BDSM hookups or a fetish dating site that caters to your kink, I’m sure one of the sites above can cater to your needs. Local BDSM lovers use these sites to meet in person for games of domination and submission. So find your submissive woman, femdom, kinky slave or local Dom online, and turn those fantasies into reality. I wish you the best of luck and lots of kinky sex!